I've been in talks with a girl that my parents and her parents arranged, for about 2.5 months. But I want to break it off. I've reflected within myself and I just honestly want to wait a few more years before I really pursue it.

But how should i do it? I don't want to hurt the girls feelings or anything, or her self esteem.

But it's obviously much worse to force yourself if you dont feel like it.

So from a girl's point of view, how should i do this?