if son disrespects his father is father allowed to curse him in that case? And is father allowed to say that the home and money is his only?

The son must not do or say things that triggers the father to become
upset. He is sinful for that and committing one of the most major sins
in Islam. The father has no right and can’t deprive his son from his
share of the inheritance.

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