I have been ruminating over this for some time now. I try to ignore it. But then there are so many things in the religion, that I didn't know about. For instance, you can look at a man, you can stare in his eyes, and you can talk to him at length. You're allowed to give da'wah to a woman that's half naked.

So is there a justification that I don't know about, that could have given this man clause to meet me alone? Or was it simply weakness in his religion