I have seen in some hadith that our beloved prophet(pbuh) mentionsomebody that he is not one of us. For example, He who deceives does not belong to me. my question is that those commit such sin become kafir? The one who deceives become kafir?

This does not mean he’s a kafir, rather it means he has not fulfilled the 70 plus branches of Iman.*

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