As-Salaam alaikum,
In ayat 156 of chapter 2 of the Holy Qur'an.. Surat Baqra (2:156), it is stated:--

"WE BELONG TO ALLAH, AND TO HIM WE SHALL RETURN."

With this, we realize that when we say: 'We belong to Him', we are declaring that nothing belongs to us.... nothing is deserved. Everything we have is a pure act of grace and blessing(s) of/from Allah, the Generous and Merciful Lord of the Universe. Once this fact reaches our heart, we will be able to break free from arrogance, pride and complaint....